Facebook has been globally recognized to be a popular social utility that supports intense networking systems. People hence find themselves able to connect with friends, colleagues and family members with the instant click of a mouse! Facebook is so widely and commonly used that its usage does not only reside among the people of our generation. It has infiltrated to generations above us, that even our parents have starting tapping on the wonderful network coverage Facebook provides them with to connect with us. That being said, whether to connect or keep track of our behaviour is yet another question.
The above video clip displays how a parent proudly illustrates the convenient usuage of Facebook to keep close watch of her son's behaviour. She also makes occasional snide remarks in a matter of fact tone about this girl, Jenny, who apparently seems close to her son.
'Facebook won't let me see her entire profile, but I can get a good enough idea of what she's like by looking at this trampy picture' says Gloria Bianco.
Gloria shares with the two hosts on Today Now! that she writes on her son's wall five times a day to remind him to take his medication and also looks through his photos on a daily basis. While Facebook is a social networking system that provides people with the closest description of how someone is like due to the verbal and non-verbal communication cues present in the template of the system, we sometimes wonder whether anyone could possibly have some personal space left, especially with overbearing parents like this.
The liberty to have access to one's life through information(words written in the form of Facebook status, wall messages and biography- Verbal communication cues) and pictures(serves as a form of non-verbal communication that aids verbal communication to get a broader social make up of a person's lifestyle etc) inevitably leads to encroaching of privacies? In this case, I feel that it demonstrates just that.
In the video clip, Gloria Bianco mentioned that tagging of pictures on Facebook allows her to have a better idea of the friends her son is mixing with. Tagging of pictures also enables others to know that you have attended certain parties, weddings and gatherings.. some of which may not be suitable for 'parental consumption'. In this case, thank goodness for the lock function that enables one to make their profiles/pictures private, however, how is it possible not to include one's parent in their list of friends? By doing so, parents would question their child's integrity, thinking that they are hiding certain things from them.
I believe communication between parent and child is very important, however trusting their children and not making judgements about their friends due to their often inaccurate perceptions of them through the internet is even more important.
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